michelle acknowledges that the challenges people face, while similar, are not the same even if they have mbc because “metastatic breast cancer isn’t one type of cancer.”
“i can have metastatic breast cancer, and a friend can have the same type of breast cancer, but our bodies will respond differently,” michelle said.
the personal experience of living with mbc varies so significantly because of unique challenges and successes in treatment, coping, and support. that’s why the “make the most” hub is so vital for those diagnosed and living with mbc.
for michelle, having something like the “make the most” hub would have drastically changed her initial diagnosis experience.
“had i had access to the make the most checklist, it could have influenced some of the conversations i was having with my friends, with my care team. some of the questions i wanted to think about, i felt like there was a lot of stumbling and not knowing what to say, what to ask, how to have some of these difficult conversations, or even how to prioritize what mattered to me and not feel selfish,” she said. “all the content there would have been so invaluable when i was initially diagnosed.”
now that the “make the most” hub has launched and is live, people newly diagnosed with mbc will have an easier time navigating than others who came before them did, simply because there is now a safe place for them to go to learn about what they can do to improve their quality of life, how to speak to their care team and connect with others who are going through the same experience.
dr. al-khaifi, who has a lot of experience on the care team side of things, sees just how valuable the hub can be for those like michelle, who may fall through the cracks easier than those diagnosed with other forms of cancer.
“it can be very encouraging for women just hearing from others,” she said. “i feel this is a great opportunity for patients to just hear the different stories as well as get that sense of community. (having an incurable disease) does not mean that that’s the end of it or you cannot enjoy your life or live a fulfilling life, so it’s good for a sense of community and a sense of belonging.”