when did you find out that tanner was going to receive a stem cell donation?
right before new years of this past year, i received a phone call from the bone marrow transplant team nurse saying tanner has an appointment for an mri in early january. i didn’t ask any questions right away, but i knew it was the start of something significant for us. so, the mri appointment rolls around and then the next appointment was with the bone marrow team, where they told us the plan and the official transplant date. that was surreal. i couldn’t believe what i was hearing; it was unexpected and fast.
i’m like, this means there’s a match. and then they said, well, actually, it’s your son – tanner’s brother. i have two kids; tanner’s brother, teemu, is 17. all of us got tested, mum, dad and brother, to see if we were for a match for tanner, but it turns out none of us were a perfect match. however, teemu was a 50 per cent match and being young and 17 was an ideal candidate. they said because of medical advancements and research made in the last little while, this makes it possible to use a half match donor.
what was that like, when you heard that you could go ahead with this transplant?
happy. very, very happy. yeah, i was emotional because it was great news. and when teemu found out that he was going to be the donor for his brother, his comment was “i knew it was going to be me.”
at the time of transplant, on march 23, the bag of blood comes in. it was quiet that day because we’re all waiting and expecting the arrival and start of what we were all anticipating. so, it was quiet and three nurses arrived. no one said a word, except for tanner who asked, “is that my brother’s blood?”
today it’s been five weeks since tanner has been admitted. and it’s about day 28 post-transplant. tanner is closely being monitored. again, unfortunate setbacks, but he has a great medical team that are helping him to get better and taking preventative measures.