what are we going to have to do about my job and my career? just a year prior, i was a perfectly healthy human being just starting to build my career. it was terrifying.
what are the treatments for ms?
for ms, doctors essentially treat the symptoms. there are drugs that will speed up a relapse, things like steroids, that will push you into recovery sooner. then there are drugs that prolong remission. so, depending on how intense or aggressive your disease is, you may be put on a disease-modifying drug.
disease-modifying drugs are extremely expensive: in the realm of $60,000 a year. a lot of companies don’t actually cover that, but i was lucky enough to work at a place where we had a special discount with costco and i had 100 per cent coverage of all my medications. although, i did have to get special permission and fill out a ton of different forms to get the insurance company to approve the [coverage as] a necessity.
i had that drug, and another one that helped with my walking, and one that helped with my bladder urgency. the three drugs combined were about $80,000 a year.
and that’s not covered by ohip?
no, you need private insurance. there are some foundations and companies that will help, like trillium foundation helps to cover some of the costs for people who can’t afford it. so there’s that, along with being disabled, and trying to figure out your career — your world turns upside down.
especially since you need your drug plan to be able to afford all these medications.
exactly. yeah, it is very stressful. funny enough, autoimmune diseases are largely impacted by stress. you’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t, right? it’s quite a predicament.
how did your family react to your diagnosis?
[my husband] dave is an amazing human being. he was just like, let’s do this. we can get through this. i mean, there were signs that something was seriously wrong with me and he was still around. we hadn’t gotten engaged yet, but we had discussions around that. and shortly after the diagnosis, he proposed, and a year later, we got married. it’s a really beautiful story, because in addition to the career and living circumstances and the cost of medications, the financial impact, it does tear apart a lot of relationships. there are a lot of people who have critical illnesses, like ms, whose partners walk out on them. i was extremely fortunate that [he’s] stuck around.