“my motto to people with this disorder is that you have to curate your distractions to cope with the pain. i start every morning watching something that will make me laugh like two-second funny cat videos,” she says.
“because those two or three seconds in which you’re just laughing and enjoying something, you forget you’re in pain, even if it’s a millisecond. it’s just something to reset, to tell yourself like ‘hey things are still funny.’ i do so many other things, too, like i write, i paint, i do comedy.”
tom norris: living with the ‘fiery dragon’ of chronic pain
for tom norris, 76, chronic pain is a daily battle that he refuses to lose. he’s a retired u.s. air force lieutenant colonel who was stationed in saudi arabia and the pentagon, among other posts.
he now lives in los angeles where his wife works as a character actor in film and television, while he dedicates his time to advocate for chronic pain patient engagement in clinical trials and running a virtual support group for 500 members.
his chronic pain started in 1986, two years after a testicular cancer diagnosis, surgery, and 30 days of radiation therapy.
“the tumour was the size of a basketball,” he says, insisting that his pig-headedness has been a blessing through cancer and everything that followed. “i am not going to buckle under to this crap.”