when we bring our children to the hospital, we expect that they will receive the best available care. we believe that their pain will be seen and addressed. we hope they will come home feeling better. but too often, the place that’s meant to heal them ends up causing harm.
research has shown that pain in children is more than a symptom. it is a safety issue. when a child’s pain is ignored or inadequately treated, it can lead to measurable, preventable harm.
no one understands the depth of harm more than jill lawson, whose premature baby underwent open-heart surgery without the use of anesthetics. paralyzed with pavulon and unable to cry, baby jeffrey was fully awake and conscious as doctors cut open his neck, back and chest, pried apart his ribs and tied off an artery near his heart. the procedure took ninety minutes. jeffrey died five weeks later.
this horrific example is not medieval history. it took place in a world-class u.s. children’s hospital in 1985. many of us born around that time are now parents ourselves. and while advances have been made, not enough is being done to protect our kids from unsafe care experiences that lead to lifelong harm.
we now know that untreated or poorly managed pain can cause delayed healing, heightened pain sensitivity, neurodevelopmental issues, trauma, healthcare avoidance and chronic pain syndromes. childhood pain is directly linked to depression, anxiety, suicidality and harmful substance use. yet despite the evidence, children’s pain remains largely ignored.