“i have always known the risk,” she said. “i am so very lucky they caught it early.”
the diagnosis kicked off months of gruelling chemo. even though the lump was in the early stages, my friend’s oncologist was relentless in treating it. he had seen how quickly these kinds of lumps can turn nasty. after six months, when it looked like a recurrence was more than possible, my friend opted for a double mastectomy.
on a slow walk one morning after the surgery, she winced each time she swung her arms — the inches long scars on her arms where the surgeon took skin to smooth out the wounds on her chest were still red and tender.
“this is going to be over soon,” she said with a smile. by the way the look on her face darkened for a minute, i could tell that she didn’t feel completely out of the woods. “i feel like i am at the edge of a landslide, waiting. if they hadn’t been watching me…”
she didn’t need to finish the sentence. over the years i had known many people who lost their lives because they didn’t keep up with check-ups or follow up on a symptom — but even more for whom an mri or blood test came too late. and that was before a pandemic rendered our healthcare system virtually inaccessible.
since covid began its insidious creep across the globe, we have watched the devastating impact on our ability to care for people. from overwhelmed hospitals, burned out doctors and nurses and policies that restrict caregivers from visiting their people in hospital, to deadly virus outbreaks in long-term care, cancelled surgeries and delayed diagnostic tests, it’s not a good time to be vulnerable, sick or love someone who is.