what was it like seeing your mother go through that when you’re so young?
it was very hard, definitely confusing as a kid, and i remember just being very scared. everyone around me had parents that were healthy, young, nothing wrong. and here i was suddenly with my mom, who was always in the hospital, very ill, couldn’t work. my dad had to stop working to take care of her.
i felt like my world flipped upside down overnight. i was so young; i didn’t have the ability to fully understand what was happening. so yeah, it was quite hard.
what happened after your mom was diagnosed?
in newfoundland, our health care is not quite as far ahead as like the mainland. there were no resources, really, for help. i remember my dad asking, is there anybody in canada that specializes in this? and he was told there wasn’t anyone — which i now know is not true.
melas is maternally inherited — you get all your mitochondria from your mother — so all her children would be affected as well: me and my sister. at the time, it was kind of like what’s the point of us going through a painful diagnosis with a muscle biopsy [to get a diagnosis]? [the biopsy] was really bad with my mom, it was very painful for her. they cut a big gash in your leg and pull out a piece of muscle. not fun.
when i was around 18, we got in contact with dr. mark tarnopolsky, who is a neuromuscular specialist in ontario. he’s amazing and he offered to see us and have a muscle biopsy done that’s much less invasive. it’s just it’s like a needle — the size of a straw.
you’re living in newfoundland full-time, but the specialist is in ontario. how do you feel knowing that part of the country doesn’t have the same resources that another province does?
i’ve lived here my whole life so i don’t know any different. i’m on the west coast of newfoundland — even my geneticist is on the east coast, which is an eight-hour drive. i’m very used to just not having immediate access to things here.