“i was a compulsive weigher. i would weigh myself in the morning, after lunch, before bed. i don’t know what answers i was looking for,” says elia.
“i came to realize my relationship with food was one of the most abusive relationships in my life. it had the power to ruin my day,” she continues. “with any abusive relationship, the best thing to do is to cut it out of your life.”
she started eliminating so-called “trigger foods” from her diet. for elia, that meant refined sugar and flour. “i went through the same symptoms as any addict would go through during detox: intense physical cravings. i wanted sugar, flour, and fatty foods,” she recounts on her website.
she relapsed twice, when the cravings became overwhelming, but managed to shed 100 pounds and keep the weight at bay for 14 years. now that she’s keeping track on a regular basis, elia hasn’t looked at a scale in a long time.
reaching a goal that worked for sandra is a success story with a powerful message, but despite elia’s accomplishments, treating obesity remains difficult for many canadians.
a major challenge involves shifting public perception surrounding the disease. many public and private drug plans treat obesity-related drugs as a lifestyle therapy, and as a result don’t cover them. elia knows there’s a lot of work to be done when it comes to how we address obesity.
“before we judge, we need to educate ourselves,” she continues. “right now, there are more than seven million canadians living with obesity. they are not lazy, undisciplined, or gluttonous. there is something going on. let’s come at it from a place of compassion, knowledge, and wanting to help.”