maid patient groans 'help me' before dying because sedative didn't work properly
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an ontario man groaned, grimaced and repeated “help me” while undergoing doctor-assisted death after one of the drugs didn’t produce the anticipated level of sedation, initially leaving him conscious.
the unexpected complication, witnessed by his family, illustrates the rare but potential risks involved with maid that experts say people should be informed of when consenting to assisted dying.
no medical procedure has zero risk of complications or unexpected outcomes, said dr. ramona coelho, a family physician and former member of the office of the chief coroner of ontario’s maid death review committee.
“yet some maid clinicians publicly portray maid deaths as uniformly peaceful, beautiful and free of complications,” she said.
“this does not present an accurate picture of reality and risks influencing decisions about maid” based on an idealized portrayal of assisted death, coelho said.
cases of maid that do not proceed as planned were highlighted last week in media reports involving the 2024 death of bradley stewart, an ontario man who resumed breathing after being pronounced dead by a london, ont., family doctor and maid provider — a traumatic experience his siblings who witnessed his mishandled death are still recovering from.
the doctor, james maclean, did not administer the customary sequence of drugs, and left before stewart resumed breathing.
another case reviewed by the ontario chief coroner’s office and obtained by national post describes the anonymized death of “mr. d.,” an 87-year-old man with congestive heart failure who died by maid in 2023.
two assessors agreed that mr. d met all eligibility for maid, that it was a voluntary request and that he was suffering a grievous and irremediable medical condition.
the maid provision took place at his home, the same day he was transferred home from hospital.
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once settled, two intravenous sites were established.
the doctor administered the first drug, midazolam, a valium-like sedative. next lidocaine was injected to numb the vein and prepare it for the next injection, propofol, a coma-inducing drug that can burn and sting upon injection.
midazolam is meant to put people in a deep state of relaxation. people often fall asleep.
however, “during the first three minutes. mr. d experienced signs of physical and psychological distress, including groaning, guarding (tensing muscles) and grimacing,” reads the case review.
“mr. d did not experience expected sedation” from the midazalom and remained conscious.
“his behavioural signs of distress escalated to repeated verbalizations, including ‘help me’ that continued until sedation was achieved with propofol and a comatose state was confirmed,” according to the case report.
“these unfortunate end-of-life circumstances created profound distress for the family. they witnessed their father suffering with physical and psychological distress and these final memories stay with them.”
the family “shared reflections such as powerlessness to change the course of their father’s final suffering, anguish regarding the decision to support their father through the maid process and immense grief and sorrow regarding their final memories with their father,” according to the case review.
the maid provider reported mr. d’s death to the coroner’s office. a coroner’s investigation concluded that the most probable explanation was an unexpected response to midazalom which, in rare cases, instead of sedating people causes a paradoxical reaction: stiffening of the limbs, elevated heart rate, twitching, jerking or muscle spasms.
according to the case review, the family wanted their father’s death shared with the broader maid community “to ensure all providers engage in an informed consent process prior to maid which includes discussion of potential adverse effects of medications” and have contingency plans in place to meet all possible complications.
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a paper published by camap (the canadian association of maid assessors and providers), titled “complications with maid in the community in canada,” explicitly recommends a discussion of possible complications with patients.
“that recommendation would make little sense if there were no meaningful complications to discuss,” coelho said.
none of the protocols for intravenous maid fail, if administered properly, the camap document states. the most significant complications are the inability to obtain intravenous access, or losing it once the procedure has started.
in a survey of 335 canadian emergency doctors, three reported having seen maid patients come to emergency because of iv failure.
a 2022 study of 3,557 maid deaths in ontario and vancouver between 2016 and 2020 found complications in 41 cases (1.2 per cent). most fell into one of two categories, the authors reported: obtaining or maintaining iv access, or prolonged time to death requiring a second kit of maid medications.
overall, death occurred within three to 15 minutes in most cases. the shortest documented time to death after the first injection was one minute; the longest, 127 minutes. “but the authors did not analyze how often significantly prolonged deaths occurred or what factors predicted them — questions that matter deeply to patients and families,” coelho said.
the ontario coroner’s office routinely speaks with families after a maid death, the researchers noted. any major complications unrecognized by doctors may be reported by families. “therefore, it is reassuring that complications were uncommon or were insufficiently troubling to clinicians, patients and families to even be recognized as such.”
however, a complication that might not be captured is the possibility of consciousness due to “sub-therapeutic doses of anesthetic agents,” meaning the possibility that some may be aware during the maid procedure.
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in an email to national post, camap co-founder dr. stefanie green said she wasn’t available for an interview before deadline, but said that “99% of cases have no complication and the vast majority of the 1% that do are related to iv access (or challenges with this).”
however, in a november 2025 interview with chatelaine, green said, “the patient feels nothing other than comfort and sleep. there is no gasping, there is no choking, there is no coughing. it’s a peaceful, comfortable witnessed death.”
one in 100 isn’t insignificant, given more than 16,000 people died of maid in 2024 alone, coelho said.
another small study involving five family members who had complex maid bereavement experiences found that while some witnessed a peaceful death, other accounts challenged the narrative “that maid unequivocally leaves a legacy of a dignified, good death.”
bradley stewart, of beachville, ont., shown in 2024, had liver cancer. he spontaneously resumed breathing after he was initially declared dead by a london, ont. maid provider, who did not follow the full maid medication protocol.
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bradley “stewie” stewart — one of six kids, a community-minded man and active member of the little baptist church and local legion in beachville, ont., who’d rarely missed a day’s work in 47 years with the same company — was diagnosed in 2023 with liver cancer.
he ultimately chose to die by maid to avoid the death his father endured. “he thought there was a better way with maid,” his sister, cathy stewart-mott said.
stewart, 67 when he died in september 2024, squeezed every moment he could into the months, even days, leading up to his death.
he collapsed on a sunday after attending a car show at the local museum where he’d manned the barbecue every summer for 20 years before he became ill. “that’s when he said to his brothers, ‘i think this might be it,'” stewart-mott said.
maclean was called to the house three days later, after stewart had become unresponsive. stewart was surrounded by his siblings, family members and friends. his three chihuahuas were perched on his bed. maclean injected midazalom and propofol. but missing from his briefcase was a third drug that paralyzes the muscles and stops breathing. after injecting the propofol, and unable to hear a heartbeat, he pronounced stewart dead and left.
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only stewart resumed breathing. some in the room noticed “what looked at first like almost imperceptible” breaths that grew stronger, stewart-mott said.
she was in the kitchen when her daughter found her. “uncle brad isn’t gone,” she said. “he’s breathing again.”
maclean had used a back-up maid kit; a new one he’d ordered wasn’t ready when he arrived at a pharmacy to collect it.
tracey townsend, another sister, said that when maclean returned to the house after being called back, “he said something to the effect of, ‘wow, this has never happened to me before. he’s still breathing?’”
maclean administered more medication, including the neuromuscular-blocking drug, and again declared stewart dead.
the death had a profound effect on the family. at first, “we couldn’t talk about it,” said townsend, who had to take a few months leave from work. “going through maid and losing somebody twice in a matter of a couple of hours. (it was) too much.”
“there was shock. there was numbness,” said stewart-mott. “people tried to remove themselves from it. ‘maybe this didn’t happen.’”
they’re angry that despite finding serious concerns with maclean’s maid practice — including a second complaint involving his assessment of a maid patient outside a tim hortons — maclean wasn’t brought before a disciplinary hearing by his licensing college. instead, he agreed to a minimum of six months’ clinical supervision, among other voluntary undertakings. he is permitted to continue practising maid.
“it literally was a slap on the wrist,” townsend said.
“it shocks me because, in a lot of jobs, that’s the kind of action that would have got someone fired and yet they are literally saying it’s remediation,” stewart-mott said.
“they had the ability to suspend his doing maid but never went down that road.”
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maclean declined to comment when contacted by national post last week, citing rules regarding privacy and confidentiality of complaint investigations.
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