as doting, dedicated parents, the barnfields used to treasure taking their young children on their much-loved “monthly dates.”
determined to give each of their two kids, aged nine and 11, quality one-on-one time, krystal barnfield would stay home with one child, while her husband would take the other out for a special meal and activities.
the following month, they would switch, with the other child getting a fun date and the other parent and child taking it easy at home.
“it was really very special. one of us would take them for a meal out, and then do all kinds of fun things — bowling, swimming, the movies or mini golf. whatever they wanted. it would be their choice.”
the kids are learning that quality fun time is now limited to outdoor play, because that doesn’t cost anything, she adds.
“we’ve had to really tighten our belts, we don’t get to go out and do those fun things anymore.
“but at least the kids are getting old enough to understand how careful we have to be with money now. and they’ve been really good about it. they want to do their part to help us save.”
the barnfields are among a growing number of calgary families having to cut back on spending just to keep up with basic costs such as groceries, rent and even school lunchroom fees for their kids.
the family has been renting the upper level of a house in abbeydale for the past five years. but rent has continued to climb rapidly, going from $1,420 before the pandemic to the current $1,875, which includes a $250 spike after they renewed their lease last summer.
“we were really lucky when we first got here five years ago, before the rent went up, we were getting a pretty good rate. but now it’s jumped so much in the last couple of years.”