“i didn’t start walking until weeks after because i just lost the ability to,” she said. “you don’t expect that. your brain doesn’t tell you that’s what’s going to happen, and when you feel it, it’s so jarring,” shilpa said of not being able to stand or walk on her own following the surgery.
once she was out of recovery, she was given immunosuppression medications to ensure that her lungs wouldn’t be rejected by her body, something that she still takes today. unfortunately, the side effects of that medication, as well as treatment for a bout of pneumonia, led to her needing another transplant. this time, it was her kidneys that had begun to fail her due to her medications.
she waited for a few years for the kidney transplant to come through while doing dialysis, with her husband becoming her donor in december of 2023.
“he was there through all of it (her illnesses), but i think once the kidney started failing and the dialysis piece, that’s when he really had to step up as a caregiver,” said shilpa.
together, shilpa and her husband had the operations, and afterwards, they had to recover together.
“we’ve both been through it. he donated his kidney. that is quite actually, in some ways, that recovery; they say it’s harder because for the healthy person having to adjust to one kidney less, they go back to being healthy, but it’s still an adjustment,” she said. “whereas, for me who’d been really compromised on that kidney front to then having a functioning kidney, it’s like, ‘oh, this is amazing.’”
the recovery went well for both of them, nothing like her first transplant, and by the following march, she and her husband were gearing up to participate in a 5k walk to honour their experience together and their wedding anniversary.
“it was just a way of celebrating that thing together,” she said.