slater said that initially he thought, perhaps naively, that the ministry of health would use the association as a resource.
“it didn’t turn out that way,” he said. “time after time, they had these great initiatives that included every other stakeholder except the very people sending people into long-term care and paying the bills.”
when long-term care facilities were closed due to covid-19, many people in the industry came to realize how important family members were in providing practical, day-to-day help to residents. when a family member helps with tasks such as eating and personal grooming, for example, care aides can focus on residents who don’t have family members to help them.
slater said some long-term care facilities do recognize the importance of independent family councils. others, he said, don’t, and go to the extent of ignoring or marginalizing them.
“managers can do it in a variety of ways,” he said. “they’ll refuse to advertise meetings for independent family councils. they’ll tear down posters that are put up by family members to meet as a council.”
he said when some long-term care facilities control the family councils and set the agenda as well as chair meetings, it has the effect of “stifling really important conversations often coming from elderly people who are afraid to complain.”