how will their child respond to this?
as dr. bui explains of the crushing level of shame some women experience, “i’ve had patients who have been told outright by their health care providers, by their families, by their communities, that becoming pregnant would be irresponsible, would be incredibly selfish. some women have been told that they should not have children.”
she’s countered all this with empathy and a mission to open up the conversation, even writing a children’s book for women with epilepsy to read to their children that provides a creative and gentle way to describe their condition and normalize it. and she’s also championed the lullaby project, an incredible program first established at new york city’s carnegie hall, that pairs expecting parents with professional musicians to create original lullabies for their babies. the program came to toronto in 2017 through massey hall and roy thomson hall, where dr. bui enrolled her patients to explore music as medicine in epilepsy and potentially other conditions like anxiety and depression.
holistic treatment for women’s brain health
“we wanted to make this really a space of safety, exploration, creativity and what better place to de-escalate this and open up breathing space than music and art and medicine,” she says. the program has also sparked a study to look at women in the lullaby project compared to women who go through the standard program at krembil, and gather data to share with colleagues and influence standards of care in neurology.
“we noticed that women going through the standard program, there’s a significant consecutive consistent drop in quality of life throughout all trimesters, and it’s at its lowest at delivery,” she explains, even with all the support of her team.
“now, there’s a second group of women getting the same high level of care, but getting the music intervention group. and their quality of life is stable. so there’s something stabilizing about all those tiers of connectivity that happens and if we can scale it through partnerships with established music programs in every single community. if government can recognize the value of music creation in stabilizing maternal mental health, even in the most difficult diseases like epilepsy, what would that do for the whole population?”